What is a wingman? It’s that one person who knows you at your best and worst. The one who encourages you to follow your heart, but also tells you straight when you’re losing your mind. Someone honest, loyal and always there when things get tough. For Ruan Smith, that someone isn’t just a friend – it’s his identical twin brother, JP Smith.
In the new season of kykNET’s popular reality series Op My Eish!, JP stands by his brother as a confidant and sounding board while Ruan searches for love in front of the cameras.
“It’s an absolute honour – it’s awesome,” says JP. “We’re incredibly close and know each other well. It’s a new challenge for me. So, it’s going to be interesting. Ruan and I have been through a lot together – through the tough times and the good. So, I know what’s best for him. I’m going to be honest as always. I have his best interests at heart.”
The two brothers not only share a close bond, but also an impressive history on the rugby field. JP has played for teams such as Western Province (2010), the Brumbies (2014–2015), Canberra Vikings, the Stormers (2016), the Reds (2018–2020), LA Giltinis (2021) and the Lions (2021–2024). He and Ruan have played together for the Brumbies, Reds and Lions, among others.
These days, the twins co-run a rugby clinic called Eight7, where they focus on developing young talent. JP knows exactly what Ruan is looking for at this stage of his life: stability, sincerity and someone who is comfortable with simplicity.
“Ruan is looking for someone who is easy-going – not someone who always has to be on the go or busy. In our careers, we were incredibly busy and had very little time for ourselves. So, someone who values time at home is important to him. He’s not looking for a high-maintenance personality – just someone who’s comfortable with the normal, quiet moments.”
But it’s not just about comfort. JP believes Ruan needs a partner who is both independent and family oriented. “He doesn’t want someone who expects him to do everything. A relationship is about building together – not just giving in one direction. Yes, it’s important for a man to play his part, but it has to be mutual.”
When asked how he will know when Ruan is truly in love, JP answers without hesitation: “If he makes sacrifices in his daily life for someone, then you know it’s serious. He doesn’t give up that part of himself easily. So, if he starts to adapt for someone, it means a lot.”
“Ruan is actually a very gentle guy,” says JP. “He puts his guard up, especially in new relationships, but when you get to know him, he’s an incredibly loyal, caring person. I hope people see that side of him in the series – not just the strong rugby player, but the big teddy bear he really is.”
And if you’re worried you’ll confuse the two on screen?
“We’re very similar, but our personalities are slightly different. You’ll start to notice that. And if there’s any confusion – I’m the smarter one,” JP adds with a laugh.
He believes Op my eish! is a unique opportunity for his brother: “In today’s world, everyone’s so busy that it’s getting harder and harder to find love in a natural way. This series gives him the chance to open himself up, to try again. And if I can be a small part of that journey, then I’m there.”
Entries for the new season of Op my eish! are currently open at kykNET.tv. Entries close on 2 August 2025.
